We were a very 'nuclear' family Davo. Just me, my mom and my dad. Although both my parents had a sibling, neither of them had children so I don't even have cousins. Up until I was 12 we visited the grandparents only during school holidays. I spent a couple of after Christmas holidays at my maternal granddad's farm in Norfolk and we also visited (but I don't remember staying over) my paternal grand dad's in Chelsea where he was custodian of a poish block of flats inhabited mostly by diplomatic staff from several embassies. He was a retired London Met copper and was very honest and caring but rather humourless. My dad was also a London Met policeman until he managed to get into the navy about 1941. It wasn't easy to swap during the war because the police were in effect part of the war effort. Hitler eventually gave up trying to hit mom and I with V1 and later V2's and then dad put in for an overseas posting to Bermuda where we spent 2 years then nearly a year in New York before returning to the UK where dad was based at Harwich in the Reserve Fleet ship HMS Tyne. During this time I went to a boarding school in Colchester and only came home at weekends. Dad was absolutely bored out of his brain on Tyne! He reckoned it was aground on gin bottles, so he proceeded to apply for overseas posts and New Zealand came up and here we are still, well I am but there's nobody else left. Only my kids ! The grandparents popped off within 3 years of us leaving except for maternal granny who came here in 1955 with my uncle who remained a bachelor all his life.
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Civilisation is a veneer, easily soluble in alcohol!